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How to Choose the Best Wedding Reception Songs

Whether you’re deep into your wedding planning process or just starting to scope out the possibilities, there’s one key element to consider — and that’s the soundtrack of your big day.

Music plays a huge part in weddings — possibly more than we give it credit for. The right wedding reception songs can transform your celebration by showing your style and personality to guests while ensuring everyone has a memorable experience. For instance, hiring an acoustic singer, instrumental pianist or guitarist for your wedding can bring a touch of warmth that pre-recorded music often lacks. Are you going for a disco dance floor affair or calming background music for your special day? Either way, your music choices are essential and the right wedding musician can add the final flourish to an unforgettable day.

With this in mind, let’s look at how you can choose the best wedding songs for every part of your reception.

1. Choose a genre that reflects your style

The genre you choose for your wedding music can set the tone for the entire day. Are you a fan of elegant classical music or do you prefer something with a bit more edge? Perhaps you're considering a thematic approach — maybe an upbeat, jazz ensemble for a 1920s Gatsby-themed gala, or indie-acoustic folk tunes for a rustic barn wedding.

Similar to the music genre, it’s important to note that your wedding’s general theme can guide your song choices. For instance, if you’re having a traditional church wedding, you may benefit from classic wedding processional music. However, if you’re having a beachside celebration, this may call for more relaxed, acoustic vibes.

Most importantly, think about the music genre that resonates most with you as a couple and then use it as a foundation to build your dream wedding playlist.

2. Set the tone with your choice of performer

Live music or DJ for a wedding? It’s a question that’s bounced around wedding forums and engaged couples for the longest time. After all, it’s a significant choice that could impact the atmosphere of your wedding reception.

Live band vs. DJ for a wedding reception

Live wedding music can bring a unique and dynamic element. The power of a live band is that they can tailor their performance style to your personal taste, creating unforgettable and intimate moments for you and your loved ones, from your first dance as a married couple, to magic live music moments throughout your special day. Hiring a live band with AMV Live Music means your wedding reception entertainment is completely tailored to your wishes, with many of our bands offering a DJ service included within their booking fee, ensuring that any songs that your band do not offer within their live performance set list are included within the songlist for your wedding reception.

On the other hand, a DJ might be your go-to choice if you want a wide variety of music to keep the party going all night. DJs can effortlessly switch between genres, blending them seamlessly, and adjusting to certain moods throughout the event. This will ensure that everyone — from your youngest nieces and nephews to your grandparents — has a song they can enjoy throughout the night.

3. Choose music that reflects the right ambience and atmosphere

As we’ve touched upon above, music can influence the atmosphere of any event or celebration — and your wedding is no exception. Open up a discussion with your partner about the overarching ambience you wish to create for the day. Do you envision a lively, upbeat celebration, or a more low-key, romantic evening?

Select songs that enhance the mood you aim to set. For a romantic atmosphere, consider classic love ballads or soft, twinkly instrumental music. For a lively setting, incorporate energetic hits into your playlist that are sure to get everyone dancing.

4. Pick songs that reflect key moments in your relationship journey

This is probably our most important piece of advice. Remember — your wedding is your day. While you may be choosing certain songs to please your guests, remember that it’s a day for you and your partner. Your wedding day will naturally be filled with significant moments that music can enhance further. Live music can provide a personal touch to your special day and can really make your wedding ceremony or reception ‘grand entrance’ one to remember.

It’s also worth considering the different phases of your wedding reception, and you can use this to guide your music choices. The music playing during your wedding breakfast should allow for conversation, so something soft and pleasant works best, like jazz or soft acoustic pop.

Then, the big moment. Your first dance is one of the most magical moments of your wedding. Choose a song that’s meaningful to you both. We think the best wedding first dance music is a song that has lyrics that resonate with your relationship — so this is definitely not the time to be thinking about anyone else.

Our Favourite and most popular first dance songs are:

  1. At Last – Etta James
  2. Perfect – Ed Sheeran
  3. I’m Yours – Jason Mraz
  4. Better Together – Jack Johnson
  5. This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole

5. Take your time to find the right musician

Hiring the right artist for your wedding songs isn’t just about your music preference but also practicality. Think about your wedding venue’s space, your budget, your ideal vibe, and what will resonate most with your audience. You may also need to think about location. Most wedding bands and musicians are happy to travel to your big day — ours cover a range of areas across Scotland and the North of England — but it’s always best to double-check before getting your heart set on a particular artist.

At AMV Live Music, our goal is to ensure you experience the best wedding music for your day, with the right musician or band. From singer-guitarists to string quartets, cover bands, and club DJs, feel free to explore our talented artists’ detailed profiles. You can watch their videos to help find the ideal match for your wedding day.

Make your wedding unforgettable with AMV Live Music

Ready to find the perfect soundtrack for your wedding? Let our professional wedding musicians help to make your wedding day truly memorable with songs that reflect your unique relationship.

Our extensive catalogue showcases musicians from the North East and North West of England. We also work with talented artists from the Lake District and Cumbria, Yorkshire, and Scotland. So no matter what genre or music style you’re searching for, we’ll help you find a top performer near you.

Get in touch with AMV Live Music to book your wedding band or musician, and let’s set the stage for your day.